For Couples

At Pathways Psychotherapy, we understand that relationships are both deeply rewarding and inherently complex. Whether you’re navigating communication challenges, rebuilding trust, or seeking to deepen your connection, our couples counselling services are designed to support you every step of the way.

Evidence-Based Couples Therapy: The Gottman Method

Our approach is grounded in the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy, developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. This evidence-based framework is the result of over four decades of research with thousands of couples, focusing on what makes relationships succeed or fail.

The Gottman Method emphasizes:

Enhancing friendship, respect, and affection
Managing conflict constructively
Creating shared meaning and life goals

Studies have shown that couples who engage in Gottman Method therapy experience significant improvements in relationship satisfaction and conflict management skills. In fact, this method has been associated with a 75% success rate in helping couples improve their relationships (theguardian.com).

Our Expertise

Tanja Ben-Meir, the founder of Pathways Psychotherapy, is trained in both Level 1 and Level 2 of the Gottman Method. With extensive experience working with individuals and couples, Tanja brings a compassionate and insightful approach to therapy. Her background includes:

Long-term experience supporting both women and men through various life stages
Expertise in parenting, offering guidance for co-parenting and family dynamics
A commitment to creating a safe, inclusive space for all clients, including those from LGBTQIA+ communities

Extended Sessions at No Extra Cost

We believe that couples deserve the time and space to explore their concerns in depth—without feeling rushed. That’s why we offer extended 90-minute sessions for couples, at the same rate many other practitioners charge for just 60 minutes. This allows us to work more thoroughly with both partners and make the most of your time together in each session.

Tailored Support for Your Relationship

Every relationship is unique, and our counselling sessions are tailored to meet your specific needs and goals. Whether you’re facing specific challenges or simply wish to strengthen your bond, we’re here to support you in building a healthier, more fulfilling partnership.

Recognising the time constraints in many professional couples we offer sessions in the evenings and on Saturdays. Upon request "massed sessions", which means a whole workshop-style day, can be arranged with your counsellor to kick-start therapy and accelerate repair, learning and growth.

Booking an Appointment

We offer both in-person sessions at our Ashburton location and follow-up individual telehealth appointments for your convenience. Our services are accessible without the need for a GP referral, and we provide discounted rates for Health Care Card holders.

To arrange for massed sessions please call to discuss options and obtain a quote.

To schedule a session or learn more about our couples counselling services, please call us at 0481 826 522 or visit our booking page.

At Pathways Psychotherapy, we’re dedicated to helping couples navigate their journeys with empathy, respect, and evidence-based strategies. Let us support you in creating the relationship you envision.